Are You Really One of the Good Ones?
A quiz for men who are sure they're not part of the problem
Most men who cause harm to women don't think of themselves as harmful. They think of themselves as decent, reasonable, maybe even progressive. They're not Andrew Tate. They've never hit anyone.
Clearing a low bar isn't the same as being good. The questions here are about ordinary moments. The kind that don't feel like anything when you're in them. That's the point.
Choose the answer that most honestly reflects what you actually do or feel, not what you think you should say. The quiz only works if you answer for your real self.
After each answer, a short explanation is available to read. At the end, your score points toward a result. Take it as a starting point, not a verdict.
This quiz doesn't assess who you are as a whole. It measures specific patterns of behavior and attention in a domain where most men have significant blind spots, including men who are genuinely trying.
The score is a starting point. The more useful question is which specific answers you'd answer differently if you were being fully honest, and why.
